Kim Kardashian’s ex threw a “booby trap” party when he surpassed 10,000 sexual partners.

Ray J claims he’s slept with 12,500 women — as many as 10 a day, — but can only do another 1,000

Kim Kardashian's ex threw a "booby trap" party when he surpassed 10,000 sexual partners.

By Kathleen Perricone

April 28, 2026 10:07 p.m. ET

Ray J performing in Atlanta in 2025. Credit:

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- Ray J estimates he's slept with 12,500 women, in a new interview with Cam Newton.

- When he surpassed 10,000, he threw a "booby trap" party attended by hundreds of his sexual partners.

- The singer famously dated Kim Kardashian, as well as Whitney Houston in 2008.

Ray J has so many notches on his bedpost, it must be whittled down to a toothpick.

The singer claimed he’s slept with an estimated 12,500 women — as many as 10 a day while on tour — on Cam Newton’s *Funky Friday* podcast.

Toward the end of the 3-hour interview, after discussing everything from his sex tape with Kim Kardashian to OJ Simpson and aliens, Ray J was asked about his recent claim that he had slept with 11,500 women.

Newton was skeptical of the astronomical figure and pushed the singer on his math skills, resulting in a confusing conversation rivaling Abbott & Costello’s "Who’s on First," as Ray J attempted to explain that when he surpassed the 10,000 mark, he celebrated with a “booby trap” party attended by 400 to 500 of his sexual conquests.

“You’re talking about *different* partners?” Newton asked.

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“These are 10,000 different people,” Ray J clarified.

“You said 11,” the retired NFL star noted.

“It’s at, like, 12,500 now, but I wanted to get to 11,” Ray J rambled. “I was guaranteed 10. I didn’t want to be at 9,000, and I wanted to be at 11. Then… we went to 10. Just wanted to make sure I was over.”

Ray J and Kim Kardashian in 2006.

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In an attempt to understand how 12,500 sexual partners was possible, Newton asked the singer about his “average.” But the question seemed to confuse Ray J, who has been in public relationships with Kardashian, Whitney Houston, and former wife Princess Love.

“You’re 45 now… so that’s sleeping with a little over one and a half women a day for 30 years,” Newton said.

“Yeah, the math is different,” reasoned Ray J, “because when we’re on tour, we’re thinking five to 10 a day.”

Ray J and Whitney Houston in 2008.

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“A day?!” Newton shot back.

The singer defended himself, claiming he knows women who have sex with 45,000 men a year. Newton, exasperated by this point of the interview, exclaimed, "There’s only 365 days in a year."

But there’s one thing that Ray J made clear: He won’t be reaching Wilt Chamberlain numbers (25,000 women) in this lifetime.

"I can only f--- a thousand more," he told Newton. "I can’t do anymore."

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